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Unfinished Business

Unfinished Business Group

A Christ-centered journey toward healing — a confidential, Spirit-led group for ministry leaders ready to heal from past hurts, not just manage them.

Why This Group

We all carry emotional baggage

Have you ever found yourself asking, "Why did I react that way?" So many of our patterns are rooted in past hurts. They may have helped us cope once, but now they hold us back, shaping how we lead, love, and live more than we realize.

Unfinished Business is not counseling and not a Bible study. It's a careful, Spirit-led group journey for ministry leaders ready to stop managing pain and start healing from it.

A safe, confidential space.Everything shared in this group stays in this group. We begin and end with that commitment: to each other, and to the work.

The Journey

Topics we explore

  1. 1

    Core Longings

    Our dysfunctional responses to unmet longings: medicating pain, self-protection, self-provision, and punishing self and others.

  2. 2

    Our View of God

    How it has been shaped by our family relationships during our formative years.

  3. 3

    Trust

    Blind trust, passive mistrust, aggressive mistrust, and perceptive trust.

  4. 4

    Prayer Steps Toward Healing

    The interplay of life situations, dysfunctional behaviours, emotional upheaval, lies, distortions, and wounding.

  5. 5

    Dealing With Dysfunctional Behaviours

    Identifying and addressing them by the power of the cross, including steps of repentance.

  6. 6

    Emotions

    Recognizing our emotions and the role they play, and learning to lament and grieve our losses.

  7. 7

    False Beliefs

    Identifying and renouncing personal false beliefs, becoming grounded in our identity in Christ.

  8. 8

    Healing Wounds

    Through prayer and the power of the cross.

  9. 9

    Forgiveness

    A biblical approach to forgiving and releasing.

  10. 10

    Next Steps

    A long obedience in the same direction, carrying on the healing journey as wounded healers to those around us.

By the Numbers

49 Christian ministry leaders have completed the Unfinished Business Group.

Cost
$275
+ curriculum
Sessions
14
2–3 hrs each
Duration
4–5 mo
small group of 3–6
Format
Online / In-Person
your choice
Facilitators

Who You'll Meet

Cathy Gates, Director of Thrive Ministries and founder

Cathy Gates

B.Sc.N., M.A. Strategic Leadership

Founder of Thrive, a seasoned small-group leader and workshop presenter who brings compassion, transparency, and humility. Holds a Certificate of Formational Prayer from Ashland Theological Seminary.

Dave Dion, Thrive team member, board member, and pastor

Dave Dion

Pastor

Over 25 years as an ordained minister, trained in formational prayer through Healing Care Ministries. His heart is to see leaders leading from wholeness and deep connection to God.

What leaders say

I was hesitant at first. It didn't jive with my understanding of what it was to be a guy. I couldn't have been more wrong. The skills I learned have helped me become a better dad and husband, and I gained a deeper understanding of issues I'd struggled with for years.

G.B.

Thrive's Unfinished Business group was a chance to experience deep empathy, healing care, and understanding from God through our leaders and group members. A safe small group such as this for people in ministry is rare and precious.

H.M.

My experience was truly amazing! I received a newfound freedom as I acknowledged my pain, let go of secrets and burdens, and handed it all to Jesus.

P.W.

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